What do I do about this?

Question

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now. We basically live together and everything. Today I saw on his email that he responds to those chat bots from porn websites, I tried to talk to him about it but he’s at work and I start work in an hour. What do I do, I consider this cheating but i don’t know how to stop him from doing it. What would you all do?

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Idk if a gf should really be like talking to him about bots honestly … I respect the opinion of what is allowed in the relationship but if I understand correctly bots aren’t like real people …to my knowledge …and  4 months while I’m sure intense just doesn’t really seem long enough to kind of demand anything other than exclusivity… so I kinda think this is a good time to define exclusivity in y’all’s relationship… that would be good… but I mean I don’t think a gf of so short should really be kinda like in his emails ( ya know to be charging him up with evidence kind of thing) … it all seems so heavy for such a short amount of time

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Well if you are at the “living together” stage, usually the “basic boundaries “ should be set in stone. Was this form of cheating/part of his life not discussed?

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have a serious conversation with him when you guys both aren’t at work

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