Lately I’ve been feeling like my partner hasn’t been giving our relationship attention. He works 8 to 7 (which I have no problem with a working man. He comes home, gives me a portion, lays down, plays his game on the phone and crashes out. I cook, clean, rub his feet, drop off lunch to him at work, scratch his back, go to his little poker games with him, pay the majority of the bills (I work full time too), get him whatever his little heart desires, clothes, shoes, you name it. I have three kids with one on the way. I’ve asked for date, no date, he is too tired. He will make it up to me…never does. The sex….it’s been one sided. He hasn’t went down on me since August (who’s counting) but yet he always gets his turn and his finish. But never me. So, here’s the funny part, his coworkers gf dropped all their kids, and the baby off at their job and left. She busted his back window out the day before. My auto reply is like “what did he do?” He says nothing that he has just been working a lot. He continues to say she is tripping and his coworker said he’s been giving her money and she says he works a lot. My partner says “if she doesn’t appreciate it, she needs to bounce,” I’m like “no, there is something more behind it.” He gets all in his feelings and gets upset at me because I’m not on his coworkers side. Of course not, because the way that girl is feeling, I feel! But she had more balls than me.