FTM, what should i do?
I am 32 W 5D pregnant which means I only have about 7 weeks until my due date. i’m a young mom, this baby was unplanned (but very loved) i’ve been with my fiancé for over 4 years now. i’m so stressed, we still live with my mom, the house we were planning to buy fell through because of tax issues ( long story) so we resulted to looking for apartments but all of them around us are either too expensive ( we were only going to pay around $850 for the house payment) or don’t allow dogs, especially not pit bulls, we have a mini yorkie and a 2 year old pit mix that we rescued a while back, i don’t want to give them up but it’s so hard finding someone willing to let us rent. (we have all his papers and shots up to date if that matters)
i’m just so stressed and need some encouragement. my fiancé hardly helps, we works full time, and so do i but i do almost all the cleaning, planning, grocery shopping, etc. and it’s exhausting. i have a lot of things packed up because i thought we were moving but just found out a few weeks ago that we aren’t getting the house so i’m stuck on what to do. i don’t even have his nursery set up or all of his things organized, we had a baby shower yesterday so we got a lot more than what we did have. my mom has room for us to stay where we are so i’m not so much worried about not having a roof over our heads but i would really like my own place when the baby gets here. i have so many people telling me i should do this or i shouldn’t do that blah blah blah even my mom, i want to do what i want for my baby, i understand that i will need more help than i think but it’s not even about raising him, it’s more of how i should organize or wait to do a certain thing, just small stuff honestly. the people i’ve contacted about apartments have not answered me back, i’ve emailed, called, texted, and nothing. i’ve been trying for weeks. i may be over reacting but my fiancé just doesn’t seem very worried about it but i’m just so stressed. i’m ready to be in my own place and have some freaking space! i feel so so awful that i don’t even have his nursery put together. i need advice, encouragement or prayers/ good vibes please 😭
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