Should I have my first time with my fwb?

Kayla

Hi! I know fwb is taboo sometimes but it’s really working for me and this guy because we’re both in a transition stage of our lives and are going to be moving away in a few months.

I entered the relationship having really only made out with a guy and nothing ever more really. On the other hand, he’s much more experienced and has done all the above. He’s so respectful and lets everything go at my pace and makes sure it’s 100% comfortable and consensual. We’ve gotten to the point where I give him BJs and last night he fingered me for the first time. It was so nice and I’m very happy :)

So basically now we’ve almost done everything except sex (and oral him -> me) and I’m conflicted. I trust him so much and I’m so comfortable with him. Should I go for it and try sex? I’ve heard of people forming deep connections and that’s not what him and I are tryna do. Also, should I wait for “someone special” like my first boyfriend or something? I kinda wanna do it idk. Just have fun with him because I do like him & I can start learning what’s good and stuff. Lmk please!!