For a first date he wanted to go to a park on Tuesday around 2pm, I couldn’t because I was at work. He asked about coming to my house, again I told him I couldn’t let him do that because I don’t know him much. We agreed on bowling for 1/23 which was yesterday. He asked for 10:30pm and I asked to change the time for 7:30 or 8. He told me he could for 8. I got there at 8, he wasn’t there. He told me he was with his grandmother, he told me he’ll be coming for 9:30, I told him alright, 9:30 came and he’s still not there, I called my father up and the whole time I was out my dad told me he was nervous for me. Finally he came around 10:40pm in an uber, yet I already left. I told him off and this is what he had to say...

I started to feel like he only did it for himself. He wanted to go at a certain time then he pretended to agree just to try to make me wait there by myself because he wanted it at a certain time or something. Obviously we all know what happens after 10pm. My parents told me if I want I could give him another chance the only thing is that it would need to be on my terms.