Probably a dumb question to ask but i just feel lost. My man has planned an anniversary date for us 2 hours away from home.. swimming, jacuzzi, outdoor activites, hotel...but I'm unsure if we should go..

His brother has cancer and was just diagnosed with sepsis so we are worried about that currently.

His mom has gout and recently acted up and both feet have a bacterial infection so we are worried about that currently.

His siblings are busy with life so there was a conflict of who has time to take care of their ill brother and mother. There was a whole argument in their family groupchat..I didnt say a word I just removed myself from the chat because i was in shock that his siblings want to argue over this stuff. Fighting about seeing the ill ones but they couldnt make a 2 hr drive over the weekend, instead his siblings had a get together elsewhere but couldnt make the time to come home for a night. My man and I have been going back and forth to see and care for his ill brother and mother so for his siblings to fight is just..sad.

He's been working 12hours because I had lost my job 😭

Theres just so much going on as soon as the date was set, we feel bad if we go and i also feel bad because his family is just going through so much which makes him stressed, and Im stressed, we're both stressed.

I told him we should cancel the anniversary date and reschedule but he said we really need this date to relax and have quality time and he said we probably need this the most right now for us..to just get away for 1 night. He does have an older half sister that is so loving and caring she's been helping us take care of their brother and mother.

I don't know. What would you do?