I was diagnosed 6 months ago. I’m dating someone new and he wants to give me oral but my new bf is nervous. I moved about 3 months ago before we started dating and the stress of moving plus running out of meds when I got here caused me to have multiple outbreaks back to back. Now that I’m on suppressive therapy, he’s still scared.

I haven’t had good oral since 2020, and I definitely give great oral every time. But I’m accepting this new reality that certain sex acts will scare my partners. Idk if I’m looking for advice or just someone that understands. I feel isolated sometimes when it comes to dealing with this whole thing.