There are times where my husband will make very rude remarks towards my weight and it upsets me. I am not in any way overweight. I’m quite healthy and fit. If I want to have a treat he will make condescending comments (when he feels like being a jerk. Other times we will eat snacks together. When I want it and he doesn’t it’s a problem. When we both want it it’s completely fine). The weird thing is that his entire family is absolutely huge. It’s actually a bit concerning but then again none of my business. Genetically, my family is very thin and we don’t gain a lot of weight. His on the other hand is the opposite. He is the thinnest one of his family and I have never judged him or made any rude remarks. Is he projecting onto me when he makes comments? He’s even said “i want to see you insanely skinny”. It’s really annoying and he was never like this. I’m honestly concerned if this is something genetic (I didn’t meet his family til after we got married - pls don’t ask lol) and was kinda shocked. I am concerned if it will have any type effect on my kids if we plan to have any together.