Hi mamas👋🏻 new mom here. What do y’all do when you get hate comments about being a mom/wife from your in laws? Or from people in general?

Long story:

I just had a situation with my grandmother-in-law. She’s crazy in general and goes off on a lot of people for a lot of simple things. But I haven’t experienced her rage before, rage towards me specifically. I asked her in one sentence to stop calling my newborn child fat. She started calling him fat, fatty, lil fat boy, he’s getting soo fat everyday and not always in the nicest ways. I’m not angry that she did I just wanted it to stopped. So I said I don’t want Ryan called fat. Chubby or chunky is better. Well in return I got called many things and basically told I was already a bad mom and wife. She has early on set dementia and mini strokes, as well as a pinched nerve in her brain. She’s done the same thing to two of my sister in laws recently as well. That whole side of my husbands family keeps apologizing but I still feel bad about the situation. She basically said fuck y’all leave me alone I’m never going to talk to y’all again and what got to me was her saying she’s going to pray every damn day for that baby having to grow up in that situation (of me being an overprotective sensitive bad mom cause I asked her to stop calling him fat🙃). I feel guilty because I really wanted her to meet Ryan he’s literally 2 months old. But I don’t feel guilty because it was one sentence, a simple request and she blew it way out of proportion. I’m used to being walked on by my family and sometimes his family I didn’t care before but now having a baby, I don’t want him to get walked on. That starts by laying down some rules and gaining respect. Thank you for reading my story🥴😬