Visitation

Mya

Hello Everyone I’m hoping I can get some advice. I have a 6 week old baby. Me and her father are not together he treated me very badly during my pregnancy. When we first found out I was pregnant he begged me everyday to get an abortion until I was about 6 month pregnant. He would say things like how he has suicidal thoughts due to my decision to keep our daughter. And how I’m forcing him to be a father etc. he cheated on me so many times. And told people how I trapped him etc. he did nothing for our daughter he came to maybe 4 appointments. He didn’t buy any diapers, clothes nothing he still does not contribute to anything for her . Now that’s she’s here he’s demanding that she sleepover his house and that he gets more days to see her. I keep telling him how he can come to my house to see her but everytime I say that he has an excuse as to why he can’t come over, he doesn’t try to video call her, he doesn’t ask how she is throughout the week he knows nothing about her then just comes out of nowhere with demands. I brought her to sleepover his house once he said he had all the things she needed thank god I still brought my own stuff because when we got there he had no diapers, no wipes and the incorrect formula and I told him because she’s so little I’m not comfortable with her sleeping anywhere without me. He’s now giving me a hard time saying she doesn’t need me to be there with her she’ll be fine etc and that he needs more days with her. And that I’m stopping her from seeing him which I’m not because I told him he can come to my house anytime to see her it’s not fair for me to always drive to him so he can see her. And I’m not comfortable with him coming to pick her up and taking her. He threatened to take me to court I don’t think he will but he’s very narcissistic and nasty I don’t see us coming to a visitation schedule on our own. So I think maybe we do have to go to court. I’m curious what they would say in terms of visitation being that she’s so young still. Any advice would really help I’m super stressed and my postpartum anxiety is so bad about this