I’ve been talking to someone for months on and off the reason I say on and off is because he said he works a lot. We had sex once it wasn’t ideal because of something happening while we were out with each other but it was known he wanted to try again which I’m totally down for. But I had a past of men who would have sex and then just leave me he told me he’s not like that and told me you don’t have to worry about anyone else because he’s working,going home and chilling with his nephew or always sleeping. I love that he works hard but I wish he knew how I wanted a relationship or wanted better communication from him. I don’t want him to change anything for me but my past experiences make it hard for me to trust him. Sometimes I may not hear from him days and I can say it scares me and makes me feel abandoned as if he’s gonna be like the rest. When he’s with me he treats me so well I never want that feeling to go he’s just so complicated sometimes. Is there a way to manage these feelings I really like him. Even if we’re just friends I want better for us.