Please no judging or down talking 😔 So I have 4 children. 1 girl by one man she just turned 5, my second born is a boy, by a different man (well call him Josh) than my daughters dad, he’s about to be 3. My third born is a boy he just turned 1, just had my fourth baby boy in October 2021 who is definitely by my second borns dad (Josh). But my third born boy, I believe is someone else’s (well call him Nate). I’m pretty sure he is because he looks nothing like my other 2 boys who have the same dad. And I’ve kinda stalked around and looked up the “Nates” sister on fb and her children look exactly like my third son 🤦🏽‍♀️. I just find it impossible because when me and Nate had done “the nasty” he definitely pulled out 🤷🏽‍♀️ I witnessed it myself, and he even said that he did. (I heard that you can get pregnant from the pullout method🤦🏽‍♀️) This baby looks just like Nate. So I “supposedly” have 3 baby daddies 🤷🏽‍♀️. And I had had sex with Nate and Josh about a week apart (I think). Me and Josh are still together, living together. And there has been several times where he questioned whether my third born was his son. But he still claims him as his and does things for him. He’s very wishy washy with it. And he says that if he’s not then it won’t look good on my end. Nate has messaged me a few times hitting my line (I guess trying to get back with me). Mind you we were never together. It was just a one night stand for real. I’ve known him for about 4 years. He comes and goes. I tell him that I think that that baby is his and he gets in denial and get extremely mad and blocks me for months. I may or may not hear from him til MONTHS later. There’s no other way to contact him. I don’t hear from him at all. I don’t even know where he is (as far as what state he’s in). I just want to do things right. What should I do? **Edit: If I was to get a DNA test, I would definitely start with Nate first who is “supposedly the father” rather than starting with Josh. But how do I go about doing that, unless I start something at the child support office where they do dna tests there to get the man on child support🤔**