This is my 19 year old cousin, she has 2 children of her own who aren’t in her care because she keeps disobeying dhs. She has a history of drug and alcohol problems, I have been there to help her out with money, food and things for her children and this is how I am thanked. My partner and I got engaged 24/12/21, unfortunately due to money issues he couldn’t get me a proper engagement ring. So I temporarily brought a small silver band for him and myself, I later was asked by my father if I wanted my late grandmothers ring. To which I was shocked, I asked my partner and he said he loved the idea. So we picked one out and had it resized, I posted it to my socials to celebrate with family and friends. Then I received and long hateful, disrespectful paragraph from her. She proceeds to call me a spoiled bitch and all this other crap, now for abit of back story.

Her father (my uncle) passed away in 2015 of cancer, she was 11 and I was 14. We all loved him dearly, my father turned abit sour toward her and her sister, because they would only ever asked what they were getting after their dad passed away. Which I understood where my father was coming from, after a year they moved to nsw and repeatedly changed their phone numbers. So I couldn’t reach them and nor could my grandmother or my father, this went on for awhile. Then they began abusing myself,my grandmother and my father over their fathers death. It’s been 8 years and my father refuses to give her and her sister any of his jewellery, because they constantly message myself, or him and abuse us instead of talking to us. They have threatened my father with the police, even though my uncle left his jewellery to my father. So am I wrong for cutting her off, she was abusing me and I was about 8-9 weeks pregnant and I am a high risk pregnancy, the stress sent me to hospital with bleeding and other complications.