I have one and currently pregnant. I feel i want more kids. My husband doesnt. Reason being he wants to enjoy life. I on the other hand get joy from my children, not the extra stuff or trips to afford.

But sometimes when i look at the economy, i get scared. I dont want my kids to lack basic needs. I feel i need to figure out what to do before i give birth because it affects my birthplan. To get tubes tied or not, to operate on my hernia or not, to have another csection or vbac, to throw away baby clothes, etc etc.

Also if you hqve more than 2, do you feel like the society judges you more?