All my life, I’ve only dated men. I love them🙈 but do I think women are beautiful creatures? Absolutely. I think women are amazing. I’ve always gone back and forth with, “am I bi? Am I just curious?” My attraction towards other women have always been a little complicated. Most women I’ve found attractive were straight and taken. I’ve kissed women before, but not much of anything else. Some say it’s curiosity, others say I can only be bi if I’ve been in a relationship with another woman but everyone has there different definitions.

For the last few months I’ve realized something. Usually during my “me time”🙈 I get into my zone, and for a while, I started to have fantasies about women. Not forcefully, they just kinda flow into my mind. Now I feel like I can only reach the big o if I think about women. And I have occasional lesbian dreams here and there but I’m sure all women have before. Now I’m not basing my sexuality on dreams and fantasies. I guess I’m just looking for other opinions and maybe others going through the same as me.