‼️Sorry for the long post but Im young and desperately need help‼️ and my best friend is 37. We’ve been friends since late 2017. I didn’t start being closer to her until like April 2019. So during COVID in 2020 there was family drama going on in the house so once I got my car, I’d just go riding or go to my cousins house. So my best friend started asking me to come to her house when she found out I got a car, which eventually turned into an everyday thing (per her request). I just went over her house because if my cousin was a work, I could go over her house to get away from the drama. My friend is always on the go and always asked me to go with her and I go. I’m always there when she needs me, But I’m starting to feel like I’ve been a “yes girl”. Some days I did want to go with her when she asked, but a majority of the time I didn’t want to go. I just didn’t want to be in that house with the drama. Some days when I went to her house, Me and my older sis are moving to North Carolina in a few months. My problem is that my friend is tooooo clingy. I’m not even clingy to my partner when I’m in a relationship/dating. My friend’s car went out a few months ago n she ain’t trying to get it fixed. I’m all for helping don’t get me wrong but my car not a Taxi cab. She can give me all the gas money but if my car break down b/c she wanna go here n there and all outta town, is she going to add onto the payment to get it fixed? Hell no‼️If I’m not going to school, quick store run, or work then my car stays put. I’m not going to run my car raggedy. I’m an introvert. I loveee being alone for hours until I feel like my “social battery” is charged. I don’t talk much either. My friend wants me around her allllll the time. I can’t help her financially like I used to b/c I’m trying to move and I’m not trying to put myself between a rock and a hard place trying to help others. I want to spend more time with my family before I move, but my friend seems to be in her feelings when I don’t want to come around 24/7. I feel like she expects me to say yes bc I have helped in the past, plus we’re friends n she always sending paragraphs of how I’m always doing this n that for her. I don’t ask her for a damn thing. My spirit wants to go in hermit mode before I move. I want to focus on my health, getting my finances right, do my shadow work, meditate 🧘‍♀️, and pray. I want to be around my family or just chill to myself sometimes without her being upset. I need a season to be selfish..I’m always doing for others and listening to their problems.. it’s tiring. I’m starting to feel drained and pissed off when I make plans to go visit her. How can I let her know that she’s starting to become overbearing and I can see her without her wanting to be under me 24/7.