Ok, I need help 🤣 I've been with my fiance for nearly 3 years. Within our first year we had sex ALL THE FUCKING TIME, our sex drives matched and it was fucken heaven. But as we've passed the one year mark then then started moving into the 2 and nearly 3 year mark, my sex drive has plummeted.

My partner has an extremely high sex drive still and always wants to have sex, always wants to eat me out (it's his favourite thing and he does it well), I'm a bisexual woman and he's a straight male. Over the last year and a bit, we've introduced toys like my little vibrator and a vibrating cock ring. We've even spoken about threesomes and trying new things, I've been surprised that he's been suggesting these things. I have no problem with it.

But he's worried I'm not in love with him anymore. I continuously turn his offers for sex down (he always asks) and it clearly upsets us both. The last time we had mind blowing sex was in December last year when we went for 5 rounds and he made me orgasm, the longest we've gone without sex is nearly 2 months. I don't know what's wrong with me. Advice? I love this man and I wanna have sex with him but my body keeps saying no even when I'm horny as fuck.