I’ve been seeing the guy I’m with now for a couple months. And I honestly don’t think that I love him. But he really really loves me.

Last month, I went to the gyno because I had red bumps “down there” and found out that it was herpes. I was devastated and embarrassed. I was depressed for weeks.

I told him about it (even tho I wish I didn’t have to). I talked to my doctor about my sex life and she was convinced that I got it from him because he’s the only person I’ve slept with in 4 months.

But he says that he’s never had herpes so he’s in denial that I could have gotten it from him.

I kind of think that I am only with him because I’m scared if we break up that he will tell everyone that I have herpes. 😔

Any advice ??