my husband’s best friend is getting married soon, and his wedding will be in Florida. we reside in Arizona. by the time the wedding gets here, I will be 36 weeks pregnant. i’ve already opted out of going to the wedding because i do not think i can travel that far into pregnancy. while my husband is gone, i will be home with our 15 month old. the closer the date gets... the more nervous i get about him going. i’m concerned i’ll go into labor when he is gone.

do you think my spouse should go to the wedding?