Bedtime bottle

I’m trying to cut out bed time bottle for my daughter she is 1 year old. She’s become reliant on her bottle in order to go to sleep, we’ve tried the loose a ounce a day and we finished all her ounces and she still screams bloody murder when she doesn’t get her bottle..

We’ve tried just letting her cry it out and self soothe but she works her self up so much my husband or I have to go down to her room and rock her to calm her back down and put water in her bottle and not milk.

I’m desperate for ideas to kick the bottle at bed time😭

We’ve tried changing her routine and giving her a bottle before bed too but she still wants it 🤦🏼‍♀️