So this guy and I were friends sense maybe 8th grade. Every sense he has been in love with me and we are 24 now. Life just never worked out that way I got married divorced so on and so forth. He has always tried to get with me but I was always honest and up front about not feeling the same and that wasn’t fair. We tried it once about a few months back and he was super pushy about sex and just immediately all I’m saying “I have the right I’ve been in love with you for 10 years.” And also constantly sending messages back to back if I didn’t answer cause I was busy with my kids. I obviously told him no that I wasn’t there with him yet and we quit talking. He kept pulling the whole “I can’t live without you.” And sending me money on cash app to try and get my attention. I told him several times I was not in love with him and he needed to move on and honestly I just think it’s crazy when someone can’t take no for an answer. Everyone keeps pressuring me saying that’s the guy I should go with but don’t feel it’s right if I have never felt the same way. I get being in love with someone but to hold onto them for 10 years… and being super pushy? Every time I tell him no and my reasons he will say he feels like life is putting us together and that’s why none of my relationships have worked out and we are “meant to be” . Honestly they haven’t because I was way too young lol. Am I just being mean? Some loved ones feel I’m pushing him away and feel there’s something wrong with him because I’m use to toxic.. idk maybe but no way in hell would I sit around for 10 years waiting on somebody. Maybe just different life views?