My boyfriend’s “best friend” (She’s married & They’ve been knowing each other since high school.) suddenly texts my boyfriend “i miss your voice”. I confront him & he tells me he doesn’t remember her saying that. I don’t go through his phone. He asked me to go through his phone, but I won’t. I told him to call her since she misses his voice. After that, I told him to text her not to write him after 8pm.. he proceeds to do it, but quickly asks me “how about 9 instead?” & she texts back “why?” “Are you doing it right now?”

.. idk if I’m overreacting but, that’s just weird to me, like why are you in contact with someone who doesn’t respect your relationship…