I want a divorce…

I’ve only been married four months and while some days are good half of them are bad. We’re both 31. He recently lost his job and he has been applying but nothing. EDD is taking forever. So I’m basically covering all our bills which I’m ok with to an extent. However, his attitude is extremely stressful. I am understanding of the situation and never complain and constantly show affection. But things are not good and I feel like sometimes he’s playing mind games and he’s very disrespectful.

Things I’ve come to notice; when I am speaking to someone he cuts me off and continues to talk. We own a company together and I come up with a lot of ideas and he seems annoyed or ignores them. When he does like it he passes it off as if it where his. He’s constantly in a bad mood and I ask if everything is ok and he says yes. Then I give him space because clearly he’s not and he starts asking me. I’ll say yea I’m just working on ‘this’ and he freaks out to the point where I can’t take it anymore. I never get upset and I’ve gotten to the point of screaming and then he acts like a victim. But it’s like he purposely pushes me to get upset. At first I thought it was in my head and there’s something wrong with me so I always apologize but I feel like I’m being gaslighted even mentally abused. He will go to the point of crying and I end up apologizing for nothing just because I’m so tired. I’m considering divorce but I still love him. I feel in my gut that something isn’t right he acted like this before losing his job so I don’t think it’s ‘stress’

UPDATE: Thank you so much ladies. It’s been so helpful to get different perspectives from you all. I realized this might be what he needs. Therefore I took y’all’s advice and I’m seeking counseling for him and us as a couple. Thank you again.