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I’m 17 and I want to start masturbating. I have tried it many times but never seem to get much pleasure from it. All my friends are always talking about giving themselves orgasms but I’ve never had one and really want to see what it’s like. I have had sex but my bf has never made me orgasm either so I’m completely lost 😂. Has anyone got any tips?

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You can get a vibrator and start exploring yourself to see what you like and what you don’t like.

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Totally get it- truthfully it takes some time. What i would do it practice touching n rubbing my clit different ways to see what motion, speed, etc felt good. I would say get yourself aroused before you start however you like- you can get aroused to the point where you feel like you need to release or just enough to be wet. All up to you. If yk how you like your clit touched do it- keep a clear mind the best you can. My first time took up to an hour 🥲 but after that the process usually comes quicker lol. If you want you can experiment with clitoral vibrators or clitoral n vaginal vibes with your partner (check with them first- a lot of them don’t want to be teammates with a vibe for some reason 🙄) but honestly it just takes time, a clear space, clear head, etc. put your phone on do not disturb, lock your door if you can, set the lights n temperature right, change clothes, take off clothes whatever makes you comfortable. What i used to find a lot of ways to try it was badgirlsbible.com and cosmopolitan 💀. But good luck, be patient n kind to yourself while you’re trying <3

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Get a mirror and explore your anatomy. Also find a time where you know you won’t be interrupted. I would recommend trying to get wet or use lube and play around with what feels good.

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