Let start off with I just had a baby 5 weeks ago. I was hoping after I had my son my sex drive would come back but to be honest I think it is worse then it was before I was pregnant. In early 2016 I got the Nexplanon birth control. ( got it out in late 2017) my sex drive went to next to nothing really fast. This morning my husband asked my if I didn’t want him anymore. And that it hurts him to be turned down by his own wife. I told him that I don’t have the desire for sex, if I did have the desire I would have sex with him more often. But I just can’t seem to get into the mood. Also this last week since he got out of quarantine he has wanted to be sexual and I keep telling him I still have an other week left before the doctor said it’s okay. But he keeps pushing for other things thing just sex. It hurts me to push him away but I don’t know how to fix this and I’m afraid if I don’t fix this i might lose him.