I have two kids about to turn 3 and 1 1/2. My husband and I are constantly fighting and we are both just over it. Stupid shit like tonight I was draining water out of the tofu and left the plastic top in the sink. Not even a minute later he goes to rinse a pan and says “plastic doesn’t go in the sink” ok smart ass would you give me a second to finish what I’m doing to throw it away and clean up after myself? Turned into a huge fight because I couldn’t just say sorry and he couldn’t of just kept his mouth shut and thrown it away himself. It’s a constant battle with the fucking dishes. He literally told me “if I’m helping you with the dishes the least you can do is rinse them off before they sit in the sink” excuse me if your helping me? Like this isn’t your home too? I work from home with both kids I don’t have time to sit and rinse off every dish after they are done eating I have to rush back to work and answer calls. He’s always mad and grumpy about something I try to talk to him he turns it around on me “well you don’t do this” he yells, screams and me in front of the kids calls me names I’m so tired of being treated like this especially in front of my kids. He refuses to change or see that he does anything wrong it’s always my fault or me refusing to listen to him. I’m so burnt out I don’t know how much more I can handle. I want better for my kids. I just don’t want to have to split custody with them 😩