So I was curious and I looked through my boyfriends phone and before you start judging just know we have always been like that we’ll look through each other’s phone and I am totally fine with it because we have nothing to hide it’s just tonight I found some text messages between my boyfriend and his sister and let’s just say they weren’t all that nice she completely insulted me and said some horrible things about me I know I shouldn’t have seen it but what bugs me is the fact that she has the audacity to speak so badly about me after just trying to guide her and help her be responsible honestly I just don’t understand I’ve never spoken bad about her I’ve always tried to be the nicest person to her and now I just feel like my niceness is biting me in the ass and I’m being taken advantage of. I’ve tried to help her given her advice and this is what I get being called a bitch and ugly and gif knows what else since I forgot what else she said. She made me cry because all I’ve ever wanted was what’s best for her and my boyfriends family and I hate the fact that I’m being portrayed as the bad guy when I’ve done so much for them. What should I do? Do I tell my boyfriend that I know about their conversation? And if so how do i show that I’m not trying to be that way. I’m just a really straight forward person and I give tough love and don’t sugar coat things I always say the truth. Help what do I do?