Do you feel like your partner/spouse should treat you like a princess/queen or as his equal?

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When I say princess/queen I mean spoiling you, you can do no wrong, constantly doing things for you, pays for everything.
When I say equal I mean things are split, act like best friends, equal effort, no spoiling.

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There needs to be a balance and it needs to be reciprocated. I hate the “do no wrong” mentality because everyone does wrong at some point. If you do something shitty your partner should be able to communicate with you about it. The same way you should be able to communicate with them. This whole post is so sexist. Women should be treating their partners just as well as they are getting treated

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My man holds me accountable but he also supports and praises and spoils me and our kids. We take turns paying on coffee dates. We take the time to snuggle and watch our favorite shows. He helps me and I help him. Its a balance of treating one another as equals and also as our most top priority with the exception of knowing the kids come above either of us. 🤷‍♀️ I think each relationship has its own dynamic but the whole "can do no wrong" dynamic is not ever for me.

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They’re not mutually exclusive. My husband is my best friend but he definitely spoils me. How you described these categories aren’t this black and white in real life.

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I want to be treated as an equal/ partner. I don't need to be treated like a queen it makes extremely uncomfortable if someone treats me as if I'm somehow worth more. I don't trust that kind of behaviour it always comes with an expiry date because no one can keep up this kind of treatment.

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Neither of your options!

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Equal. I'm not one that likes to be spoiled.  Occasionally is okay  but I don't really  enjoy it.

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I like being a princess and spoiled. But I give the same treatment back 👸🏻

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I like both. And also goes both ways:)

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I am not a queen and life on a pedestal sounds incredibly boring. My husband and I work as a team. He doesn't have to shower me with stuff and let me sit on a cushion eating strawberries and cream while he works his tail off. He would hate that and so would I.

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I don’t want either of those options. 🤢

Do you feel like your partner/spouse should treat you like a princess/queen or as his equal?

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