Bf supporting me

So basically I am grieving and I just found out I am pregnant. my bf and I made a mistake. so safe to say: I am very depressed to have both happening at once. literally two of my biggest fears hit me in 2022. so things have been super hard.

My bf of two years, im kinda shocked in his lack of support when he heard I was pregnant. he’s not called or talked it out with me. he’s very kind and says supportive words, but he thinks I need to toughen up and stop feeling sorry for myself. he also says he’s depressed bc his acne is bad. im not undermining his issues but like I am freaking tf out here. I have a baby growing inside me im feeling super sick all the time and he’s acting so weird and cold. he was never like this. I asked him if he would like to talk about his feelings and he said no. he didn’t even ask if I wanna talk about mine. im just really upset by this. he’s going support stuff with going to planned parenthood and stuff and he has helped me with my grieving process a lot but I feel like he’s getting tired of me being depressed but like this all happened within the month!!! im not gonna be all happy and upbeat like I used to be. im in shock and super upset. he just hung out with his friends all week, haven’t even offered to watch a movie with me or something. just avoiding me straight up. that’s fine if he wants to be alone, but I feel like when im in pieces, he avoids me. when im all good, he’s all over me. it’s really upsetting. he’s a great bf but this is shocking me.