Is hair just past your shoulders considered long?

I have really long hair. It’s almost down to my ass.

It really looks bad. I love my long hair tho. I am having such bad anxiety about cutting it, but it needs to be done.

It’s in really bad shape. I’ve been cutting it every 8 weeks to try to repair it, but I only cut like half an inch. I’ve been spending a ton of money on shampoos and conditioners and hair masks to repair the damage but it doesn’t do much. I need to chop it. Like all of it

I’m so sad I won’t have long hair anymore. I’m thinking of cutting it right below my shoulders. If I go that short, would my hair still look long?