Advice.

Hi ladies! I need to vent and I need advice.

Me and my husband took a valentines weekend trip to NYC. The trip went okay with the exception of us not having sex. My husband has been dealing with low testosterone problems for almost 5 years. He’s been taking cialis and T shots on a regular basis for approximately 2 years, no improvement. Our sex life is about 3 times a month. Once a week give it or take. The 4th week a month is a no, no, he is disgusted by my period. So, back to the trip, when I book it I told him that I was ovulating and I wanted to keep trying to conceive a baby. ( we have been trying for almost 5 years) no success right?! No sex= no baby. He wants me to go and do YVF which is expensive and I don’t see the need to spend so much money… but this is a story for another time.. going back to NYC, we did fun things, theater, bars, great food and drinks, you name it… but once we went back to the hotel he fall asleep. We have had countless conversations about his lack of interest. So honestly I don’t know what to do. Should I be mad? Or sad?

Please help.