Unprotected sex😰😰

So me (17 f) and my bf (17 m) had sex for the first time both virgins. I was a little scared bc he’s kinda above average😉😉. It hurt and I started to bleed a little??? Also didn’t realize he forgot the condom and he came in me. I’m on birth control, been on it for 3 years. It’s the nuva ring, and him and I are both freaking out. It’s been about a week, and I don’t know what to do. Any suggestions?? Pep talk?