I moved away from home 3 years ago. At that time making decisions for myself involved some if not all my family's opinion. Even though I had my husband, I went through a phase of depression and loneliness, I struggled trying to think/make decisions for myself.

After 3 years, we decided it was time to move back. We kept this move from family. Tonight, we finally surprised my parents, with that, I also decided to stand up to her on what type of relationship I want from her-- telling her we don't need gifts or money, that we only wanted time, (I'm hoping to turn the tables on toxic relationship).

I know she doesn't understand, I'm okay with that. I know it will take time, I'm okay with that. I might never get what I asked of her, I'm okay with that. But I told her, and... I'm okay with that. Standing up to her will help me learn to navigate her response.

Despite all this. I'm very excited about all the decorating and renovations we get to do with our space. ☺️☺️☺️