Is it normal to feel like this ?

So I gave birth recently and I see parents get a connection with there child so fast that I feel like crap ! My whole pregnancy I loved being pregnant but I couldn’t connect with her and now that she’s here I still feel the same I can’t connect and idk if it’s because I’m so tired with having a c -section or feel alone even tho my man is there emotionally ! idk what is it but I just can’t connect with her but I do love her so much… has this happen to any moms ? ( my mom says she was the same way with me and my brother )