Male advice
I’m not sure if there are any males on this app but , I’m praying there is . I need a males perspective on this .
My fiancé and I have a 1 year old daughter and currently expecting our second in June . I work nights on the weekends and he works day and night during the week . Now , I appreciate the hard work he’s putting in to financially help us and I get he has 2 jobs and works hard but , I’m with our daughter from 8am-10pm . I get no help whatsoever , I have to ask him to change our daughter or feed her or else he’ll be on his game on his days off . I don’t get no days off , I have no other adult interaction , I’m with a toddler 24/7 . I have no friends . I mean I’m not blaming that on him at all . I just feel like I’m a single mother at this point , I literally do everything for my daughter , and I’m scared for when my other baby gets here . I literally get about 3-4 hours of sleep everyday , I’m the only one who does the house work so I’d rather clean than sleep while my daughter naps . I don’t get any consideration . I let him sleep in today , even though I only got 3 hours of sleep and I have to work until 11pm . Most times on the weekends , we’ll literally every weekend , we go to my fiancés moms house with our daughter and spend the weekend . His mom always has the baby I find out while he naps , if he naps with her , she wouldn’t be awake until he gets up . She’s on a sleep schedule at home during the week , I try to make sure she does on the weekends , but I work all day and her father thinks 11-12 o’clock is bedtime , or doesn’t even try to put her to bed because he’s too busy on his game . No matter how many times I try to bring it up to him , about how I feel . He just shuts me down , he works two jobs , I’m home all day I shouldn’t be tired he says . It’s gotten I the point where I really don’t want to be around him anymore , I’m so turned off by him now , I love him to death , but I’m not the only one making these babies . Stay at home moms deserves breaks too and respect . I do the most for my daughter and get no recognition from him , or help! I feel like he changed so much after we had our daughter . He doesn’t even seem the same anymore , like he’s a totally different person. And while all this goes on , I’m expected to please him , half the time I’m never in the mood because I feel like I’m falling out of love with him , we only f*ck when HE’S In the mood , and once he finishes he’s done , don’t matter to him if I did or not .
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