Neglectful mom?

I was accused of being a neglectful mother by my Mexican mother in law (I’m Indian and Cuban) because I don’t feed my child any “vegetables at breakfast” weird thing because I don’t know anyone who eats veggies for breakfast. This person told me my daughter would have diabetes from me feeding her so many sweets, I am so confused 😐, she rarely eats sweets if it’s outside of breakfast and eats veggies for lunch or dinner. Daughter is a picky eater and likes Splenda on her fruits in the morning.

This is the breakfast in question. Banana pancake with a fried egg and kiwi and strawberry

This is an example of what she has for dinner

BBQ chicken thigh with jasmine rice and sautéed broccoli

This woman is making me paranoid, do you moms think I’m over doing it? Or feeding her unhealthy? I try my best to balance it out for a picky eater