It was my 1st pregnancy . All I keep hearing was atleast you know you can get pregnant and it wasn't actually a baby. Though those are probably true. I had been trying for Years and years. When I found out I was pregnant I was sooooo damn happy. I had cried tears of joy. But I was also scared because I was bleeding. Nothing could've prepared me for what I was about to hear. I had went to the doctor 3 days prior and my hcg was around 500, 3 days later it was at 40. I'm still bleeding and everytime I go to the restroom I am reminded that I won't have a baby growing inside of me. One that I have wanted ,and never thought I would have. I was finally happy and it was all taken from me in a short amount of time. What helped you guys cope and deal with a miscarriage? It comes and hits me in waves.