My husband keeps saying he’s suicidal

Sometimes he blames me but then comes back and says it’s his life situation.

To me, his life situation looks great. His sister, father and I think he’s just insecure that he makes less money than me.

I’ve taken his threats of committing suicide very seriously. I called the police for a wellness check. He told them I was being overly cautious and emotional. Felt like gaslighting.

After they left, he told me he just didn’t want the police involved but is indeed suicidal.

I’ve called the suicide hotline asking for advice at least 8 times. He won’t call any of the numbers they’ve provided to me.

I purchased a cerebral therapy subscription for him. He says the counselors are all stupid and won’t take their advice.

I’m at the point where I resent him and I feel like he uses “thoughts of suicide” as an excuse to neglect his duties to me and our children.

I hate him but I’m also worried about him. He’s cut every family member off and they’re urging me to involuntarily commit him. I want to. He threatens to kill himself any time I ask him for something and every time I’m not at his beck and call. What do I do?