If your man doesn’t give you head, do you still give it to them?

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Opinions?

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We do things that both of us consent to. I don’t withhold something I want to do because he doesn’t want to do something. My partner isn’t into giving head, and I am 100% fine with that. Withholding sexual acts to manipulate someone into doing a sexual act they don’t want to do is 100% wrong.

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hell no that’s not fair at all 😭

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No. You give, you receive. If he doesn’t return the favor, I don’t do it

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I like giving more than receiving in that area. 
I've had some bad experiences receiving oral so I'm not interested in getting it as often. Sometimes would be nice, but only if I feel comfortable and the mood strikes. 
But I love to suck dick. It's something I really tend to enjoy or miss more often if I don't do it for awhile. 
I've never eaten anyone out so I have no clue what that's like or if I'd like doing it. 
I don't think anyone should do things they're not comfortable with in bed, and I'd feel manipulative saying I won't do this if you won't do that- I don't like to view sex as transactional. I view it like playing, we should both like what's going on and it doesn't have to look a particular way with every person you are intimate with. 
It's true inevitably, that different sexual relationships may or may not be as satisfying,  that much is certainly true. I could see for someone that needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm, it might not be satisfying to be with someone who hates giving oral or getting you off in any way. That would be a lack of sexual compatibility that you can decide if it's important to you or not. 
I'm really glad not to be monogamous anymore when these conversations come up- even though I don't even have sex lately 😹🙃

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I honestly don't enjoy it being done to me but I like doing it for my husband. If you're comfortable doing it awesome but don't feel there's an obligation for either party to perform if they don't want to. And whatever their reason, is a good reason.
 And yes, I have been with PLENTY of people that know how to do it, it's just not my jam. I get attacked every time I say I don't like it so I'm preemptively defending my stance this time 😆 So don't bother commenting about it, I'm not debating how I feel about it.

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I took this question a different way. I went with yea sometimes just he goes down or just I do. If he never went down on me I would be annoyed and probably not do it for him either.

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For me, once sex becomes transactional it is not as erotic and enjoyable. There may be periods of time where you get more attention or where you give more attention. That’s just how that works. Every sexual experience is going to be different even with the same person.

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I honestly dont like it..... I prefer fingers than a tongue so for me I don't mind and I love pleasing him so I'll keep doing it!

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My husband doesn't enjoy it and it doesn't do anything for me so I'm not gonna force him to go down on me. Buuuut I love giving him head. Especially when he grabs my hair and holds me there 😍

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We both do what we’re comfortable with, regardless of if the other person is comfortable giving as well🥰 as long as there’s consent to receive

If your man doesn’t give you head, do you still give it to them?

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