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Do you suspect he is still abusive/dangerous? If so, dont tell him you know....just leave. Dont tell him youre leaving either.
You do a background check on..
The man you’re with and fell pregnant by, low and behold you find out the true reason behind things now that you put your trust aside and listened to your gut intuition.
His girlfriend at the time (the victim) was also pregnant, fast forward now the child is about 8 years old and he had connections cut off for about 7 months now, again.. I don’t know the true reasoning behind it, but now realizing he has a DV case, and she has a restraining order.
I’m 14 weeks and with a girl.. I’m in total shock.
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I think people have a chance to rehabilitate in these situations especially over time.. but this says he choked someone! I think you need to talk to him about it and get to the bottom of it before making any assumptions or up and leaving in the middle of the night. If he didn't lose custody of his child then chances are the courts and CPS made him go through therapy or some type of anger management counseling.. so if he has worked on these issues and recognizes them as a problem then he doesn't necessarily deserve to just be iced out, you know?
Ka
I see on her previous comment he has abused her.. I try to give people the benefit of doubt BC if people really want to change, they can. But unfortunately it looks like you're right and I hate that for her 😪
I agree the act of choking was concerning, I hope it doesn't seem like I was minimizing that act in fact I feel like its a very intimate, crime of passion and we all know how often those end very badly 😔
Mo
I was a domestic violence counselor for 12 years. I have never once seen an abuser at that level change, even with court mandated counseling. And I do NOT recommend confronting him in person. She needs to be in a safe place away from him. Violence can easily be triggered, especially if shes pregnant, abuse tends to escalate when a) shes pregnant and b) she tries to leave....she has both factors and it could be dangerous. Choking is a felony, it is equivalebt to using a lethal weapon....beating someone up is a misdemeanor. She needs to be super careful.
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