Ok so I’ve always shaved/trimmed my lady bits. I hate that shaving only lasts a few days then you get that terrible stubble that’s irritating. I decided to buy an at home hard waxing kit (small town with no one who professionally does down stairs waxing). I got everything off except down by my labia. It killed me so I stopped. Now I’m sporting a goatee! 🤦‍♀️ anyways is there anything like a topical ointment I can use that will help dull the pain so I can get my vag looking good? I’ve read there are some places that offer it to their clients and desperately want to buy it so I do not have to drive 2 hours to cry when they rip my lady lips off. Also please tell me over time it gets easier!