Ladies please some advice

No matter what I do or try my 1 year fights bed time for at least an hour and a half. She sleeps through the night no problem buds the actual falling asleep part. Ever night it’s so exhausting I dread bed time. I’ve try earlier bed time, later bed time. I simply don’t know anything else to try. And by time she falls asleep I’m so exhausted and frustrated I don’t do anything that I had planned to do. This has been going on for months and I’m simply over it. Literally the only thing that works is if I take her in her room close the door and let her cry for about 3-5 min and work herself up then bring her back into my room then she will fall asleep. But only because now she all worked up from crying. But who wants to go through that ever night. I’ve even try taking her to Chuck E. Cheese to play to burn energy right before they close, late night at the park, bouncy place at night nothing work. It’s so annoying she takes a nap no problem but ever single dang night it’s at the point where I’m so drained just from putting her to bed. Bed time is 8 but unless I let her cry she won’t probably go to sleep till 9/9:30 and when I try moving bedtime till 9 guess what same Shit so she was up even later. Like her eyes will be closed and she will trying play and roll around im like what’s the problem come on. Sorry rant over 🤦🏻‍♀️ I love my kid she is perfect but I could do without putting her to bed skip that part.