Okay mamas!!!! What BC do you recommend?!? I’m on the IUD rn and it’s super weird. The strings are too long & my partner can feel it every time we have sex. He doesn’t complain but I always ask him if he feels it and he says yeah and doesn’t say anything more. Am I overthinking it?!? He doesn’t seem to be bothered by it but I am! I have cramping sometimes too and it’s not always when I’m going to start bleeding it’s like just random times that my lower stomach cramps all day. My back constantly hurts too. Idk if that’s just from the epidural I got when I had my son or if it’s the BC. I’m thinking about getting the bar in my arm but everyone says it causes weight gain?! IDK I’m at a loss!! I cannot take the pill I won’t remember and that’s how I got pregnant with my baby!! Depo shot I’ve heard causes weight gain too and I can’t take it out when I’m ready for another one, HELP!