IVF embryo transfer

Lia 🧿

I had an embryo transfer last week and I haven't told my family. Only me and my husband know. I haven't said anything to my mum as she is so negative. The first time

worked but then didn't go further and she didn't stop going on about it. I kept saying these things happen but she didn't want to accept it. So what would you do wait till your 12 weeks to say it or say it before? TIA