Why does he ask if I’m okay after sex

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We haven’t had sex yet but we’ve done everything else. Last night we were making out and he fingering me and making my squirt and after I gave him head and when we were done he asked if I was okay??? And I was weirded out by it and said yeah
Why does he ask if I’m okay?

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He’s probably just a good guy and showing you he cares about you by asking if you are okay.

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It may be part of his aftercare. Rather than just assuming you're okay, he asks. Aftercare will vary from partner to partner.

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He's checking in to ensure you're happy with how things are progressing. He wants to make sure you're feeling okay. I think it's lovely as many partners forget to check in on each other after an encounter.

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Correct me if I’m wrong, but it sounds like you guys are just getting to know each other sexually? It’s not unheard of to get caught up in the moment. I think he’s making sure that you’re staying at a pace that you are comfortable with. 
Sounds like you got a pretty good one.

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It’s not weird it’s mannerly to make sure your actually ok 
He might have thought he was to rough so he is checking in

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Hmmm yeah my partner does this too, after 8 years 😅 I guess just making sure we are okay? I don’t know 🧐

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I think he is being sweet/ what do partners usually say to you? I think he is just sensitive/cares about you -embrace it :)

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Your partner *should* ask you how you're doing or how everything was after you have sex or orgasms, they caring about your experience. I've been with my husband for 15 years and we (almost) always check in after sex. Talk about what we liked, how it was, cuddle and just be present together. After care is so important. Don't be weirded out, its a great thing that shows he is an attentive partner. It is the minimum bar for after care honestly.

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Girl hahaha that’s being polite every guy should ask that question

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He’s a really nice guy who is making sure you are okay?

Why does he ask if I’m okay after sex

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