Enabling drug use?!

My husband is a veteran with PTSD. We recently had an incident where things got physical and I called the police. They took him to jail for a few days and he got out on bond and went straight to the VA to get help for his mental health. He did not complete the 70 day program and there is a restriction order against our address for 60 days.

He got put on a lot of medication. He also smokes weed and does mushrooms.

He hasn't been smoking weed or doing mushrooms for the past 3 weeks obviously. He left the VA very abruptly 2 days ago and is staying at a hotel. He called me earlier saying he was having bad anxiety and he was going to ask his dealer to take him some edibles and mushrooms.

I feel like I am being an enabler for not putting a stop to this behavior but at the same time I feel like maybe he does need this stuff to feel better.

I feel very conflicted.

He had a pill addiction in the past .

We have been together for 10 years and it's always something.

Idk of I should keep hanging on to this marriage or not. We have 3 kids. We don't have to worry about money and we have a house to our name. I feel ungrateful when I think about leaving because we are not in need of anything but I feel like an enabler for his drug addiction. I feel very confused. Idk what to do