Is there hope after a divorce. My husband left me after 8 years of being together and two children. It’s been 3 months since he left me a week after our second child was born. He hasn’t even bothered to help a single day with our kids since he has been gone. I have felt worthless and depressed every day. Only thing that gets me going are my kids. Some days I feel like I’ll never be happy again or like I will never find someone who wants me. I hear so many stories of men not being interested in women with kids and I’m scared that if I do find someone they won’t love my children like their own. My children come first no matter what so in order not to hurt them I want to even just give up on ever being with someone again.