Story time. It’s long, but kinda juicy.

Drama included.

So I met my said “boyfriend” in July, things went fast and I moved in the following month.

Around September or by the time I moved in, I had voiced my wants on wanting a kid regardless of any possible circumstances thrown my way. I knew my capabilities.

When we first met, it was the whole open questions and getting to know each other type ordeal, right? Ask about his previous relationships (as he opened up about them), we both have kids with toxic exes and we were able to relate, however his other ex who he doesn’t have a kid with (he has one baby mama, one kid) he mentioned “if he didn’t wear a condom when he got out of prison he would have gotten her pregnant”.. I don’t remember what made him go that in depth into a comment, but it was said.

He purposely tried and so did I.

Fast forward to January, I find out I’m pregnant at 3 weeks, I had given up the idea of wanting him, knew how many females he has shown interest in (liking pics and such), literally had sex 8 times out of my 33 day cycle, missed my ovulation date but somehow managed to conceive.

However when I told him I was pregnant, he shriveled up and was like “I’m not ready”😐

So I’m currently 16 weeks and some odd days today, on the 29th of last month me and his mom talked on the phone for the first time getting to know each other and such and this woman tells me she would recommend me to have an adoption or to do an abortion.

Who.. Why? Bitch.. What?🤨

So I told her they didn’t need to be involved and I’ve so far have done everything on my own (car seat was bought by me, swing, pack and play, 70+ pieces of clothing and bottles).

I can’t help but feel a way with both of their comments (her recommendation and his “I’m not ready for your baby, but i would have gotten my ex pregnant a 1-2 years ago and they still occasionally contact each other- when I had went through his phone once, she messaged him “babe”, he responded “what’s wrong” and they talked about her BBL surgery.

Haven’t looked since.

I do plan on leaving, I just started back working after being out for 4 months from my Nephrostomy tube, things take time..

But my question is.. Would it be wrong of me to 100% have full say so behind the baby? Not

Want him to help me with her name, with her birth certificate, or anything? Best route to take here? I’m not so much as “bitter” but I feel like everyone let me know their role.. Granted he has seem to come around more often and touching my stomach and such, but he hides my baby stuff and my stuff when his mom came over yesterday?