Donor egg hesitations

Ka

I’m looking for some insight and advice from anyone who has used donor eggs. I am 42 and <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> success with my own eggs is becoming less and less hopeful. My husband and I are considering using donor eggs but I struggle with wrapping my head around it. I feel like he is having a baby with another woman. I am trying very hard to be at peace with the idea of it but it’s still very difficult for me. We will also be using a gestational surrogate so I feel like I’m completely removed from the creation of this child and while I know it’s all about the baby we would have in the end, my heart is still torn into pieces. Has anyone experienced anything similar to this?