IVF ectopic

I finally managed to get pregnant with IVF after a long struggle with trying to fall pregnant. We started with normally TTC, then medicated cycle, then IUI and then IVF. We were so happy. On the day of our first scan our dreams were shattered: it was an ectopic. Had my surgery and I am fine physically. How do you deal with the emotions? I feel sad and angry and frustrated and I feel like nobody understands what I’m going through. What did you guys do to cope?